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Do Antidepressants Cause Sexual Dysfunction? Medical Experts Issue New Warnings

Imagine being prescribed a drug by your doctor in good faith, only to discover that it cost you your ability to make love, forever? It’s hard to conceive of isn’t it? Yet for decades it appears this has been the tragic fate of tens of thousands of men and women the world over. SSRIs Under The […]

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Woman’s Sexual Desires, Needs And Fantasies; How Can A Man Better Understand Them, And Vice Versa?

“Tell me what you are thinking about” a man said to his lover while they were deep in the throes of passion. She did. Then without saying a word, he got up, got dressed, and walked out the door. It was the beginning of the end for them. Revealing Sexual Desires Is A High Risk Activity Nancy […]

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Will My Relationship Last For The Rest Of My Life, And What Do I Do To Make It Work?

A friend told me of the conversation he had with another man after he broke the news that his 27 year marriage was coming to an end. His friend, married 25 years, was aghast. Looked at him wide-eyed, and in a state of shock exclaimed “So I’m not safe yet?”Life is unpredictable. Setbacks, challenges and […]

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Sex, Ecstasy, And Cosmic Orgasm

Questions asked by a reader… Regarding sex and sexual energy. What are your thoughts and or opinions on edging or staying on the fringes of orgasm as part of Tantra?  Getting to that blissful stage and being taught or shown how to make the most of the experience and embrace the spiritual aspect of it? Also, can […]

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What Form Is Your Power In Now?

Whilst attending an event recently, a young woman walked into the room. Wearing a short red dress and high heels. She’d a stunning figure, and an energy field that extended way beyond her physical body. A 21st Century Aphrodite, the epitome of feminine grace, power and sexual allure. Her presence commanded attention and I wasn’t […]

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Self-diagnosing Erectile Dysfunction? Consider This Outrageous Possibility First

Self-diagnosing Erectile Dysfunction? Do you know it’s the most normal thing in the world for a man to have the occasional experience of not rising to the occasion?Because it’s something many men experience from time to time?Yet more and more men today find it difficult to accept this, and are quick to self-diagnose erectile dysfunction (ED). Many […]

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How To Please A Woman, Masturbation, Self-pleasuring, & What I’ve Learned From Watching Men

I’ve had the opportunity to watch many men masturbate, which has been fascinating. I’ve learned so much because of it, that I couldn’t have learned in any other way. Not to mention something that surprised me for quite a while…  What I’ve noticed is that it’s rare to see a man touch his lingam with […]

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Presence, Barrenness, And The Fullness Of This Moment

In summer there’s nowhere I’d rather be than in my garden, where chocolate cosmos dance in a gentle breeze. Slender stalks holding the flowers clear of the penstemon foliage below. Their dark faces gleaming, catching the oblique rays of the sun. Exuberant Perfection Where sumptuous lillies tower above, almost dwarfing the gay, fragrant cosmos. Spires […]

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Good Sex Isn’t About Knowing What You’re Doing

Isn’t it time for a new story about sex? Hasn’t it been so for a while? Because as Sarah Byrden proclaims in the video below “We have put ourselves and sex in a box that is simply way too small.” Yes, yes, yes! “It’s true that we’re missing something in sex, but it’s not what […]

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Review Of ‘Touch Me Not’ – Winner At Berlin International Film Festival 2018

It’s late. I’m tired, but wired. Because I’ve just arrived back from watching the film ‘Touch Me Not’, showing in the IFI, Dublin. Now in bed with my laptop, cup of tea and bag of chips, because I can’t sleep. In my heightened state I feel compelled to write something about this landmark film. The […]

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