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Self-diagnosing Erectile Dysfunction? Consider This Outrageous Possibility First

Self-diagnosing Erectile Dysfunction? Do you know it’s the most normal thing in the world for a man to have the occasional experience of not rising to the occasion?Because it’s something many men experience from time to time?Yet more and more men today find it difficult to accept this, and are quick to self-diagnose erectile dysfunction (ED). Many […]

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How To Please A Woman, Masturbation, Self-pleasuring, & What I’ve Learned From Watching Men

I’ve had the opportunity to watch many men masturbate, which has been fascinating. I’ve learned so much because of it, that I couldn’t have learned in any other way. Not to mention something that surprised me for quite a while…  What I’ve noticed is that it’s rare to see a man touch his lingam with […]

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Presence, Barrenness, And The Fullness Of This Moment

In summer there’s nowhere I’d rather be than in my garden, where chocolate cosmos dance in a gentle breeze. Slender stalks holding the flowers clear of the penstemon foliage below. Their dark faces gleaming, catching the oblique rays of the sun. Exuberant Perfection Where sumptuous lillies tower above, almost dwarfing the gay, fragrant cosmos. Spires […]

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Good Sex Isn’t About Knowing What You’re Doing

Isn’t it time for a new story about sex? Hasn’t it been so for a while? Because as Sarah Byrden proclaims in the video below “We have put ourselves and sex in a box that is simply way too small.” Yes, yes, yes! “It’s true that we’re missing something in sex, but it’s not what […]

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Review Of ‘Touch Me Not’ – Winner At Berlin International Film Festival 2018

It’s late. I’m tired, but wired. Because I’ve just arrived back from watching the film ‘Touch Me Not’, showing in the IFI, Dublin. Now in bed with my laptop, cup of tea and bag of chips, because I can’t sleep. In my heightened state I feel compelled to write something about this landmark film. The […]

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Do You Want Naturally Stronger Erections? Then Take This Transformative Tip From Nature

Do you ever think, “My erection isn’t as strong as it used to be.” “How can I get back to the way things used to be?” “I guess it’s because of my age. I have to accept it’s part of getting older.” Do You Ever Fear Your Erection Will Let You Down? Do you crave […]

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The Eugenics Agenda – Why I’ll Be Voting No In The Abortion Referendum

Have you ever been in a situation where people assume something is true of you, when it’s not? I imagine you have. After all, it’s a pretty universal experience isn’t it? I’m in a situation like that at the moment. Some who know me, or think they know me, assume I’ll be voting yes in […]

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Snow, Death, And The Surefire Path To Courage

I meant to take photographs of my garden in the snow last week. Of a magical wonderland with snow settled on the branches of the trees. But I missed the chance. The next morning I got up to naked branches again. A thaw had set in overnight. In a few hours the garden transformed to […]

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2018 – The Year Of Dissolving The Lie

2017 was a tumultuous year for me. One which saw the birth of three new grandchildren (including twins), the death of my mother, and a serious accident befalling a close family member. On top of all that I’d to move out of my home for a couple of months to allow for some major building […]

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5 Things I Would Say To A New Lover

So much anxiety is generated in the bedroom by unspoken assumptions. By unasked and unanswered questions. And by destructive cultural myths that have become accepted as truth. It’s so much easier to take off our clothes than the invisible armour we wear, whether we’re conscious of that or not.Some Time AgoI recall some years ago […]

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