February 15

Will I Be Able To Express My Problems, Fears And Worries With You In Confidence?


It’s one of the healthiest things to do isn’t it?

To find a safe space where you can express your problems, fears and worries.

Especially those relating to emotional, sexual or relationship issues...


Trusting they’ll remain held in confidence.

In fact it's essential because...

Putting Problems Into Perspective

Problems not talked about tend to run rampant in your mind - often becoming monsters. Being able to express them can put them into perspective. Once shared they don’t consume so much of your precious energy.

And whether you realise it or not...

You are an energy being. This isn't any esoteric, woo-woo fantasy. It's a fact. When your life-force energy leaves your body you're pronounced dead.

What's the difference between a person who's dead or alive? Whether they're animated by life energy or not. 


Fears And Worries Create Energetic Imbalances

Constant worrying, or living in fear, creates energetic imbalances in your body.

Energy becomes matter. Thoughts become things.

Problems, worries and fears can take on a life of their own in your mind, and cause stress which can manifest as physical illnesses and conditions.

Not only that, but,

You Need Your Life-force Energy!

You need your life-force energy to function, and of course your ability to be fully present to and connect with a partner. Or if you're single, to finding a new one.

Your energy can get stuck in problems, fears and worries which if kept to yourself can not only create stress, but affect your libido, and the capacity to have or sustain an erection. This then becomes another problem for you to worry about.  

Have you ever felt like you're going around and around in an ever decreasing circle?

All this can lead to apathy, resignation, tiredness or fatigue, and even depression.

Free Up Your Energy

Freeing up your energy from problems, fears and worries is one of the smartest things you could do. Think of it as pulling your energy back from a black hole, from something that will drain you, and give you nothing in return.

Then you can use your life-force energy in ways that are much more fulfilling and satisfying for you.

Not least of which may be to discern which problems you could resolve, and take action to do that. Decide which fears and worries it would be wise for you to address. Then do so.

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Learn To Detach

Some situations may be outside of your control or your capacity to influence. If so, learn to detach from these.

To detach doesn't mean you don't care. It means that you're taking back your energy, taking back your power. Getting back into the driver's seat of your life.

Have you been holding onto something for a long time? That you might feel embarrassed to talk about?

What part of your life are you robbing energy from to push that down? What part of your life is that taking a toll on? Your health, your relationships, creativity, work, libido or sexual function?

Trevor's Story

When Trevor arrived for a Divine Ground Tantra Massage he was nervous, apprehensive which is the most normal feeling in the world to have before your first session.

He shared about incidences that happened in his life which he'd never done before. He then bawled his eyes out for about 20 minutes. Crying out years of holding it all in.

Then he put his hand to his back and exclaimed "That's amazing: the pain I've had in my back for the past 22 years has gone".

What you hold onto with your mind will have a corresponding holding in your body. You're an energy being, with a physical, emotional, spritual, sexual and mental component. So how could it be otherwise!

Bottling Things Up Is Not Recommended

If you've been holding something in for years, maybe decades, have you any idea what that's costing you today? What it's cost you to date?

Bottling things up is one of the worst things you can do to yourself. As a life strategy it's not recommended. Your mental, emotional, physical, sexual and spiritual health pay the price - sometimes a high one.

You're given energy every day to run your life. Investing it into feeding problems, fears and worries, drains you of power.

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All Emotion Is Welcome Here

A Divine Ground Tantra Massage is much more than a massage: it's an experience in which all emotion is welcome, and you can share as much, or as little, as you want to - in total confidence. 

Divine Ground Tantra Massage is a place of sanctuary. In which you can begin to divest yourself of all that keeps you from living your most powerful life.

The life you were born to live. 

It's time for you to start living that life today.


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