2018 – The Year Of Dissolving The Lie

2017 was a tumultuous year for me. One which saw the birth of three new grandchildren (including twins), the death of my mother, and a serious accident befalling a close family member. On top of all that I’d to move out of my home for a couple of months to allow for some major building […]

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Tantra Massage Scam – The 7 Deadly Signs

“It was a Tantra massage scam!”“I answered an ad for Tantra massage. When I arrived I was told to shower and get on the table. I showered and settled myself on the table, looking forward to the experience. This girl came back in and barked at me to turn over. She then gave me a […]

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5 Things I Would Say To A New Lover

So much anxiety is generated in the bedroom by unspoken assumptions. By unasked and unanswered questions. And by destructive cultural myths that have become accepted as truth. It’s so much easier to take off our clothes than the invisible armour we wear, whether we’re conscious of that or not. Some Time Ago I recall some […]

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3 Reasons Why You Need Alone Time Each Day

Do you get enough alone time each day? Alone time, if you fully surrender to the lushness and depth of it, can be one of the best and wisest investments you can make today. 1) Alone Time Is A Health Strategy One of the essential survival skills of the 21st Century is being able to […]

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The Disease Of Reasonable: What’s Its True Cost To You Today?

There is a peculiar affliction that humans in society suffer from, the disease of reasonable. Rarely are individuals encouraged to be authentic, daring and inspiring. Instead, polite society tends to put being ‘reasonable’ high on its list of desirable virtues. Nothing Great Was Ever Created Out Of It Reasonable should rhyme with tepid, insipid, and […]

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When Men Perform And Women Please, No-one Connects

“I want to improve my sexual performance” is an aspiration shared by many men. Unfortunately it’s rarely recognised that ‘performing’ makes true intimacy impossible. Alongside ‘pleasing’ it’s one of the greatest obstacles to it. Intimacy arises out of ‘being’. It is experienced in being truly present to what IS and to what arises in each […]

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This Is A Very Personal Post, With A Message For You

The Powerful Impact Of A Short Life A year ago today my precious granddaughter Ruby Elizabeth died an hour after her birth. As a family we will celebrate her short life today. Before 9am I’m already back from Tesco. We’ll share a breakfast fry up soon and visit her grave later. Friends and family will […]

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A Sane Way to World Peace

A sane way to world peace is for every human being on the planet to own the violence within themselves. To have no need to create enemies to project their violence onto. No need to create scapegoats for what we refuse to own within ourselves. The Definition Of Insanity What perpetuates violence is the foolish […]

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3 Easy Ways To Enjoy More Sensuality Today

When I awoke this morning and felt the soft sheets against my skin, I asked myself a question. “What would it be like to really receive these sheets that have caressed my body all night?” I felt into every pore of my skin. I noticed feeling into my skin, how the sheets that were a […]

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If You’re Wise You’ll Do These 2 Things In Relationships

You know how it goes, boy meets girl, and love is in the air. Then some months, years or decades later you find yourself alone, bewildered, possibly broke and devastated. The anger, resentment and bitterness that you may feel towards someone you once loved so much, and you know they feel towards you, can be […]

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