Hi, I'm Abi,

I help men over 40 to last longer in bed, & enjoy more meaningful sex & relationships

I found Abi very easy to talk to, open and understanding. The atmosphere she creates is relaxing and comfortable. I found my confidence returning and my sense of self-empowerment grow with each session…”

Michael, 52 

Co. Dublin

Want Change?

For Your Future To Be Different To Your Past...

Something Needs To Change In The Present! 

About Abi

Hi, my name is Abi O’Donovan.

I have an insatiable curiousity and a passion for living, loving and experiencing.


Why I created this website and offer what I do today.

Be reassured

I would encourage any man if he has any concerns about any aspects of his sexuality to contact Abi and be reassured and guided by her to work through any issues in a safe and caring space.

Jim, Co. Galway

A lovely way

Abi has a lovely way about her that makes you feel you’ve known her all your life.

Tom, Co. Kerry

A safe space

I would recommend Abi to anyone. Especially to men who may be afraid of sex or intimacy, as it’s such a safe space for them to open up.

Also for men who feel inhibited, or who are frustrated and don’t want to have an affair. To any man who may be feeling a bit depleted, stressed, or would love to feel more confident.

Graham, Co. Cork

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  • Do you sometimes feel you’re just going through the motions during sex?
  • Feel you're more in your head than in your body when making love?
  • Is erectile dissatisfaction a worry for you?
  • Do you ever wonder why sometimes you just can’t ‘perform’?
  • Or worry about whether you can please your partner well enough, or last long enough?
  • Does the thought “I hope this isn’t going to be like the last time” play on your mind before lovemaking?

Is It Time Now For You To Explore Change?

Because For Your Future To Be Different To Your Past...

Something Needs To Change In The Present!